Groomsman/Best man Engraved Silver Polished Oval Cufflinks Gift Box
What better way to ask your love ones to be your groomsmen or best man? A heartfelt thank you to be worn the day of the event and then cherished for years to come. These Personalized Silver Oval Cuff Links will add that subtle touch to the men's formal wear on the day of your wedding, and they serve as a wonderful gift that can be used in the future for other special events.
The asking is half the gift. Hand him a gift box with a pair of polished oval cufflinks inside, his own initials engraved on them, and the question answers itself. There is no speech to prepare and nothing to explain. He opens the box, he sees three letters that belong to him, and he understands exactly what you are asking and how much thought went into it.
These traditional wedding cufflinks are silver plated and feature a non-tarnish finish. The oval face is polished smooth, an understated .75"L x 0.6"W that sits neatly at the cuff of a tuxedo or a suit jacket without shouting for attention. Three characters are engraved on each link, so the pair can carry his initials, his monogram, your wedding date split across the two, or a short pairing such as "BST" and "MAN" that only makes sense once both cuffs are done up.
Every pair is engraved in-house by HansonEllis, which has been personalizing gifts since 1999. Order one pair for the best man, or a pair for each groomsman with his own initials, and hand them out at the rehearsal dinner or the morning of the wedding while everyone is getting dressed.
What makes cufflinks the right ask is what happens afterwards. The socks go in a drawer, the flask gets shelved, the koozie disappears. Cufflinks get worn again: at the next wedding he stands up in, at the job interview, at the anniversary dinner, at his own wedding. Every time he fastens them he is back in that room with you, getting ready.
Add your engraving text above, choose your quantity, and ask them properly.
Groomsman/Best man Engraved Silver Cuff Links Gift Box
Size: .75"L x 0.6"W
Personalized Cards Optional
Groomsman/Best man Engraved Silver Polished Oval Cufflinks Gift Box at a glance
The Groomsman/Best man Engraved Silver Polished Oval Cufflinks are a pair of silver plated oval cufflinks with a non-tarnish finish, each .75"L x 0.6"W, presented in a gift box. Each cufflink is engraved in-house by HansonEllis with up to 3 characters, so the pair can carry his initials, a monogram, a date or a two-word pairing split across the two links. Personalized cards are optional. They are the classic way to ask a friend to be a groomsman or best man.
Best for: grooms asking their groomsmen or best man to stand with them, who want a gift worn on the wedding day itself and kept for every formal occasion afterwards.
Who the Groomsman/Best man Engraved Silver Polished Oval Cufflinks Gift Box is for
- Asking your groomsmen a box each, engraved with his own initials, handed over when you ask him to stand up with you.
- Asking your best man the one person you want beside you, asked with a pair he will fasten on the day itself.
- Wedding day formal wear a subtle touch at the cuff of every tuxedo in the line-up, and in every photograph.
- Thank-you gifts for the bridal party a heartfelt thank you to be worn the day of the event and then cherished for years to come.
- The father of the bride or groom his initials on a pair he can wear as he walks her down the aisle.
- Anniversaries a pair engraved with the year you married, worn to the dinner every year after.
- Birthdays a milestone birthday gift for the man who already owns a good suit.
- Graduation initials on a pair for a new graduate heading into interviews and first days.
- Corporate and client gifts an understated thank-you engraved with a set of initials for a client or a colleague.
- Christmas and Father's Day a classic gift for dad, engraved with his own three letters.
Groomsman/Best man Engraved Silver Polished Oval Cufflinks Gift Box size and materials
| Size | Each cufflink measures .75"L x 0.6"W, in a polished oval shape |
|---|---|
| Material | Silver plated with a non-tarnish finish |
| What is included | A pair of polished oval cufflinks in a gift box; personalized cards optional |
| Personalization | Engraved in-house, up to 3 characters on each cufflink (one line per link), so the pair carries up to 6 characters in total |
| Turnaround | Standard 5–10 business days, rush 3–5, expedite 1–3, plus 2–5 days US shipping |
| Personalized by | HansonEllis, in-house, in business since 1999 |
Care and use
- Silver plated with a non-tarnish finish.
How the Groomsman/Best man Engraved Silver Polished Oval Cufflinks Gift Box is personalized
- Type the 3 characters for the first cufflink and the 3 characters for the second into the two personalization fields on this page: his initials, a monogram, a date or a two-part phrase.
- Set your quantity, one pair per groomsman, and if each pair needs different initials, order the full quantity and email your list to [email protected] after ordering.
- HansonEllis engraves each pair in-house and ships it insured by UPS, FedEx or USPS with tracking emailed to you.
Ideas for what to engrave on the pair
- His three initials on one link and yours on the other, so the pair marks the friendship.
- A monogram on the left cuff and your wedding date, split as month and year, on the right.
- "BST" on one and "MAN" on the other, so the pair reads only when both cuffs are fastened.
- The same three initials on both links for a clean, traditional monogrammed pair.
- Your shared team, fraternity or crew letters for the friends who go back the furthest.
Quote ideas for your Groomsman/Best man Engraved Silver Polished Oval Cufflinks Gift Box
- BST / MAN
- GRM / SMN
- JDM / RSM
- MR / MRS
- I / DO
- 6 / 27
- EST / '27
- BFF / BRO
- THX / BRO
- AJH / 627
Which one should I choose
Grooms choosing how to ask usually weigh engraved cufflinks against a plain pair or against the casual gifts that end up in a drawer.
| Groomsman/Best man Engraved Silver Polished Oval Cufflinks Gift Box | Choose them when the gift should do two jobs: ask the question in a gift box, then be worn at the cuff on the day and at every formal event after. |
|---|---|
| A plain, unengraved pair of cufflinks | Choose them only as generic formal wear; without his initials they are an accessory, not a keepsake. |
| A casual groomsman gift such as a flask or socks | Choose that for the fun of the getting-ready room; it will not be part of what he is wearing in the photographs. |
For the ask itself and for the wedding day look, the engraved oval cufflinks are the pick; save the casual gift for the morning of.
Ordering the Groomsman/Best man Engraved Silver Polished Oval Cufflinks Gift Box for weddings and events
Ordering the Groomsman/Best man Engraved Silver Polished Oval Cufflinks for a wedding party or a corporate group is simple. There is no minimum, so order one pair for the best man or a pair for every groomsman, usher and father in the line-up. If each pair carries different initials, order the full quantity and then email your list to [email protected] so each pair can be matched to the right man. Company crests and logos are handled as a custom order: send a vector file (.eps, .ai, .cdr, .pdf or .svg) or a high-resolution image to [email protected], where a logo setup fee applies and not every logo can be engraved at this size. Standard production is 5–10 business days, rush 3–5 and expedite 1–3, plus 2–5 days US shipping; for a wedding, order 3–6 months ahead so the asking happens early. For bulk pricing, please contact [email protected].
Questions shoppers ask about the Groomsman/Best man Engraved Silver Polished Oval Cufflinks Gift Box
How big are the Groomsman/Best man engraved cufflinks?
Each cufflink measures .75"L x 0.6"W in a polished oval shape, which is the traditional understated size for formal wear rather than a novelty cufflink.
What are the cufflinks made of?
They are silver plated and feature a non-tarnish finish, which is why they still look right years after the wedding.
How many characters can be engraved on each cufflink?
Up to 3 characters per cufflink, one line on each. The pair therefore carries up to 6 characters in total, which is why initials, monograms and short date pairings work best.
Can the two cufflinks say different things?
Yes. They are two separate engraving fields, so one link can carry his initials and the other yours, or a two-part phrase such as "BST" and "MAN" that only reads when both cuffs are done up.
Do the cufflinks come in a gift box?
Yes. The pair is presented in a gift box, which is what makes them work as the moment you ask someone to be a groomsman or the best man. Personalized cards are optional.
Can each groomsman have his own initials?
Yes. Order one pair per groomsman, then email your list of initials to [email protected] after ordering so each pair can be matched to the right man.
Can I have a logo or crest engraved instead of initials?
Logos are handled as a custom order. Email a vector file (.eps, .ai, .cdr, .pdf or .svg) or a high-resolution image to [email protected]; a logo setup fee applies and not every logo can be engraved at this size.
Can I see a proof before the cufflinks are engraved?
Yes. Proofs are optional and available on request for a $35-55 service fee per proof, and a proof adds extra days to production. Changes after a proof has been sent carry a $40 minimum updating fee, so check the initials carefully before ordering. Call Customer Support at 310-878-9429 to request one.
Is there a minimum order for engraved cufflinks?
No. There is no minimum order, so you can buy a single pair for the best man or a pair for every groomsman. For bulk pricing, please contact [email protected].
How long does it take to get engraved groomsman cufflinks?
Standard production is 5 to 10 business days, then 2 to 5 days shipping within the US. Rush (3 to 5 business days) and expedite (1 to 3 business days) production are available. For a wedding, order 3 to 6 months ahead when you can.
Do you ship engraved cufflinks outside the United States?
International shipping is available by request. The shopping cart calculates US shipping only and international orders cannot be rushed, so email [email protected] for a quote.
Can I return engraved cufflinks?
Personalized items are made to order and are final sale unless they arrive defective. Cufflinks ordered without personalization can be returned within 14 days.
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Updated September 2026 by the HansonEllis personalization team.
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