Bride & Groom Wedding Wishing Pot with Cards*
Insert a message of hope and congratulations to the Bride & Groom with the Wedding Wishing Pot with Cards.

Wedding wish jars are a thoughtful way of recording advice and well wishes for the bride and groom. Use this adorable wish jar as a guest book alternative, as a bridal party activity, or as an extra special wedding gift for the newlyweds. The ceramic jar has a fine glossed finish, comes decorated with baby blue polka dots, and reads "Wishes for the Bride and Groom" on the front.
The Bride & Groom Wedding Wishing Pot comes with 50 wish cards included, so there is nothing else to print or buy before the day. Make your reception a memorable one by asking everyone to take up a wish card and write a few words for the couple. It is a fun activity that livens up the occasion, and it works hardest in the gap between the meal and the dancing, when guests are looking for a reason to move around the room.
What the couple keeps afterwards is better than a page of signatures. A signature is a name. A wish card is a sentence somebody thought about, from a grandmother, from a college roommate, from the friend who introduced you. The couple preserves the wishing pot as a blissful reminder from the day the knots were tied, and it comes down off the shelf again on anniversaries, when the two of you sit and read what people actually wrote.
Family and friends may also present the wedding wishing pot as a special wedding gift to the couple themselves, filled and ready for the reception. It works wonders for Asian and Arabian Nights themed occasions in general, where a glossed ceramic jar in baby blue polka dot sits easily among lanterns, silks and warm light. A creative mind will find many other uses: place a couple of pots at strategic locations around the room and tuck in treats for guests to chew on.
It sits naturally alongside other wishing pieces. A Lucky Chinese Wishing Pot makes a useful addition for an Asian wedding, and personalized plantable wishing beans carry the same idea outside, where a wish is written down and then grown.
Choose your quantity, one pot for the guest book table and a second for the bar where people gather anyway, and give your guests something to write on that the two of you will still be reading years from now.
Bride & Groom Wedding Wishing Pot with Cards at a glance
The Bride & Groom Wedding Wishing Pot with Cards is a ceramic wish jar with a fine glossed finish, decorated in baby blue polka dot and reading "Wishes for the Bride and Groom". It comes with 50 wish cards included, so guests can write advice and well wishes for the couple at the reception. It is used as a guest book alternative, as a bridal party activity, or given to the newlyweds as a wedding gift they keep afterwards.
Best for: couples who want their guests to leave a sentence rather than a signature, and for family or friends buying the newlyweds a keepsake they will actually reread.
Who the Bride & Groom Wedding Wishing Pot with Cards is for
- Weddings a guest book alternative on the entrance table, with 50 cards ready for guests to fill in.
- Bridesmaids and the bridal party a shower or bachelorette activity where everyone writes the bride one piece of advice.
- Anniversaries refilled for a milestone party so old guests and new ones write side by side.
- Best friend a wedding gift from the friend who wants the couple to keep what everybody said.
- Asian and themed events a tea ceremony, banquet or Arabian Nights themed reception where the glossed jar suits the room.
- Baby showers wishes and advice for the parents to be, written on cards and kept in the same jar.
- Birthdays a milestone birthday where guests leave a message instead of signing a card.
- Graduation advice for someone about to leave home, collected from everyone at the party.
- Retirement a room full of colleagues who each have one good story or one good wish.
- Housewarming a first home party, with the jar left out on the counter for the evening.
Bride & Groom Wedding Wishing Pot with Cards size and materials
| Size | Not stated in the current product information; email [email protected] to confirm the jar dimensions |
|---|---|
| Material | Ceramic, with a fine glossed finish |
| What is included | One ceramic wishing pot decorated in baby blue polka dot and reading "Wishes for the Bride and Groom", plus 50 wish cards. Pens are not listed as included |
| Personalization | The wording on the jar is part of the design and no personalization field is shown on this page. The wishes are handwritten by your guests on the 50 cards. Email [email protected] if you need a custom option |
| Turnaround | Standard 5–10 business days, rush 3–5, expedite 1–3, plus 2–5 days US shipping |
| Personalized by | HansonEllis, in-house, in business since 1999 |
Care and use
- The pot is ceramic with a glossed finish, so set it on a flat, steady surface and carry it with two hands when the cards are inside.
How the Bride & Groom Wedding Wishing Pot with Cards is personalized
- Set the wishing pot where guests naturally pause, on the entrance table, beside the escort cards or on the bar, with the 50 wish cards and a couple of pens beside it.
- Ask guests to write a few words for the couple and drop the card into the jar, either as they arrive or in the gap between the meal and the dancing.
- HansonEllis ships your wishing pot insured by UPS, FedEx or USPS with tracking emailed to you, in time to set the table.
Ideas for what to ask guests to write
- One piece of marriage advice, in one sentence, from someone who has been married longer than you.
- A prediction for where the two of you will be on your tenth anniversary.
- The first memory the guest has of the couple together.
- A song they want to hear at the anniversary party, so you have a playlist waiting.
- A wish for the first year, sealed to be read on the first anniversary.
Which one should I choose
For collecting what guests want to say, the choice is between a book everyone signs, a jar everyone writes into, and a piece that sends the wish home with the guest.
| Bride & Groom Wedding Wishing Pot with Cards | Choose it when you want 50 separate handwritten messages and a ceramic keepsake, and when a queue at one book would slow the room down. |
|---|---|
| A traditional wedding guest book | Choose it when you want every name in one bound volume and a single page per table. |
| Lucky Chinese Wishing Pot | Choose it when the reception is Asian themed and you want the wishing tradition in a piece styled for that room. |
| Personalized plantable wishing beans | Choose them when each guest should take their own wish away and grow it rather than leave it behind. |
If you want the couple to keep what people wrote, not just who came, the Bride & Groom Wedding Wishing Pot with Cards is the one to set out.
Ordering the Bride & Groom Wedding Wishing Pot with Cards for weddings and events
For a wedding or a party, count the wish cards rather than the tables: each Bride & Groom Wedding Wishing Pot comes with 50 wish cards, so a reception of a hundred guests needs two pots, and a second pot on the bar also stops a queue forming at the entrance table. There is no minimum order. The jar carries no personalized text field, so there is no name list to email after ordering. A logo order is handled as a custom order: send a vector file (.eps, .ai, .cdr, .pdf or .svg) or a high-resolution image to [email protected], where a logo setup fee applies and not every logo can be done. Standard production is 5–10 business days, rush 3–5 and expedite 1–3, plus 2–5 days US shipping; for weddings order 3–6 months ahead. For bulk pricing, please contact [email protected].
Questions shoppers ask about the Bride & Groom Wedding Wishing Pot with Cards
How many wish cards come with the Bride & Groom Wedding Wishing Pot?
It comes with 50 wish cards included, so a reception of up to about fifty guests needs nothing else.
What is the wishing pot made of?
It is a ceramic jar with a fine glossed finish, decorated with baby blue polka dot.
What does the jar say?
It reads "Wishes for the Bride and Groom" on the front.
How big is it?
The jar dimensions are not listed in the current product information. Email [email protected] or call Customer Support at 310-878-9429 and HansonEllis will measure the pot in hand.
Can it replace a guest book?
Yes. It is used as a guest book alternative, as a bridal party activity, or as a wedding gift for the newlyweds.
What if I have more than 50 guests?
Order more than one pot, which also lets you set one at the entrance and one at the bar so the queue never builds. For bulk pricing, please contact [email protected].
Can the jar be personalized with our names?
The wording on the jar is part of the design and no personalization field is shown on this page. Email [email protected] to ask what is possible.
Are pens included?
Pens are not listed as included, so put a couple of your own beside the jar on the day.
Is there a minimum order?
No. There is no minimum order, so a single wishing pot is fine.
How soon will it arrive?
Standard production is 5 to 10 business days plus 2 to 5 days US shipping, with rush at 3 to 5 days and expedite at 1 to 3 days.
How far ahead should I order for a wedding?
Order 3 to 6 months ahead when you can, which leaves time to add a second pot if the guest list grows.
Can I return it?
An order placed without personalization can be returned within 14 days. Personalized orders are made to order and final sale unless defective.
Updated September 2026 by the HansonEllis personalization team.
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