Sharing The Cost Of Romance

In years past, tradition held predominately the
brides family responsible for the cost of the wedding. However, modern trends are allowing for much more flexibility in the sharing of expenses.

Today, if the bride’s family is unable to provide the traditional portion of the wedding expenses, it is not unusual for the groom's family to assume a larger role in the responsibility of finances. They may choose to contribute a set amount, or cover specific items, such as the music, flowers and/or bar bill. Bills for their portion should be sent directly to them to avoid possible awkwardness in requesting money.

With the average age of marrying couples on the rise, financial responsibility has shifted from their families to the couple themselves. One option is to split the wedding expenses in thirds, one third for each set of parents and one third for the couple. However, the bride's parents should be afforded the opportunity to graciously decline offers of financial help. In the event the couple should choose to cover the full expense themselves, the proper rationale in deciding who pays for what portion is very basic. Whoever is most willing and most able usually assumes the largest responsibility.

Reference: Premier Bride/The Planning Place

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